The Joy, Joy, Joy, Joy Down in my Heart

Joy in my Heart

As a parent of teenagers, this summer I’ve found it challenging to spend as much time with my kids as I would like. Between my son’s job and my daughter’s full list of activities, we are learning that we have to plan more creatively to carve out time to all be together. A recent Saturday morning provided such an opportunity. We actually woke them up early (which could be interpreted by them as anytime before noon) and took them to see an animated movie with us. They lovingly refer to this as forced family fun. And although I think I might have been the only one super excited about going to the movies that day, we all actually did end up enjoying our time together. And we might have even learned a thing or two from the film!

The movie we saw that day was “Inside Out” which features an eleven year old girl struggling with all the changes that come with her family’s move to a new town. The interesting concept about this story was that the real stars of the movie were the emotions in her head. All of the major emotions were represented featuring joy, fear, anger, disgust and sadness. And even though joy was front and center prior to their move, all the other emotions seemed to take over as her struggles began.

I can totally relate to the feeling of allowing all the “not so Christ centered” emotions to take over. We can blame it on circumstances, struggles, difficulties, and challenges, but when we allow any of the “other” emotions to take center stage and affect our attitude, our words, our actions, we become just about anything other than Christ like. We’ve all been there, right?

But when we allow Christ to take over our hearts and begin to truly trust Him, He has the ability to give us joy even in the midst of sorrow, to provide peace when our lives are filled with stress. He provides strength when we are weak, allows us to show compassion when we would rather be selfish, and even moves us to forgiveness rather than let bitterness take hold.

The more time we spend with Christ, the more our hearts can be filled with His precious fruits. These are the “better” emotions of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. These better emotions aren’t possible on our own and don’t often make sense to others. But they always point to Christ and might even provide an opportunity for us to share our faith.

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Paul, the great missionary we read about in the Bible, knew what it meant to suffer through emotions. He was actually imprisoned (talk about a stressful situation) for sharing the love of Christ when he wrote Philippians 4:10 – 13.

“I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.  I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty.  I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.  I can do all this through Him who gives me strength.”

Paul understood that by relying on Christ’s strength, any and every situation provided an opportunity to be content and even joyful.  If Paul can understand that concept from a prison cell, surely we can comprehend this within the chaos our lives.  Our God is faithful and if we call upon His name and ask for His strength, He will help us overcome the emotional rollercoasters of our lives.

My prayer is that we would put Christ in charge of our hearts, our minds, our souls, and most certainly our emotions. That we trust Him fully and allow His joy in our hearts to always take center stage!

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And if you’re looking for a fun way to spend a Saturday morning, you might watch “Inside Out” for yourself!

Have We Missed the Mark?

Have We Missed the Mark?

I’m learning that it is easy to feel like you fully understand a concept in the Bible and then as you read and study, the Lord reveals even more.  His truth is powerful and precious that way.  I was reading in Ephesians 2 where Paul describes a life of sin (click here to read the full passage).  What I found really interesting is that the word for sin used here is “hamartia” which is a shooting word.  It literally means a miss.  If we shoot an arrow at a target and miss – that is hamartia.  Sin is the failure to hit the target of life.  In other words, it is the failure to be what we should be and could be.

This flew in my face as I can definitely relate to this (having plenty of misses in my life).  When we think of sin, sometimes we fall into a lull thinking it doesn’t really apply to us.  We are decent, respectable people.  We haven’t stolen anything or murdered anyone.  And yet, Christ calls out to us in this scripture.  Are we where would should be and could be as wives, mothers, and daughters?   As husbands, fathers, and sons?  What about as friends, employees, workers in the home, and even as volunteers? Or are we missing the target?

If we take a little time for reflection of our own lives, we can see we might have some misses or areas where we need to strive a little harder.  These days it seems that it is much easier to focus on the sins of others (especially the sins that perhaps we don’t struggle with as much) than to take a closer look at our own hearts and ask Christ to guide us to be all that we could be.

After reading this passage with a better understanding, I realize that I have some work to do in many areas of my life.  And as we read later in Ephesians 2, we know that Christ has equipped us in advance for every good work.  He promises to prepare us, strengthen us, and motivate us for the work ahead.  He will even show us some grace and mercy through our misses.

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My prayer is that we would all seek His wisdom and understanding through scripture, that we would look for His guidance as we take time for reflection of our own lives, that we would draw on His strength to help us aim higher, and that our lives might become louder than our words in sharing our testimony.

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Finding Your Way

Finding Your Way

One of my favorite things about the summer months is the opportunities that it allows for travel.  My husband and I were reminiscing recently about our travel adventures.  We like to plan ahead and have full agendas for each day of travel (sounds fun, right?).  But our best plans sometimes take interesting turns.  We have found that sometimes the real adventures are when you get off the beaten path, and we have managed to do that a few times mostly by accident.

One day when we were living in New York City, we rode the subway to the Bronx zoo.  Based on our map (and our expert travel plans), it looked as though the subway would drop us off right by the entrance.  But at the final stop we exited the subway and didn’t see the zoo anywhere in sight.  We managed to get there by following a group of people who, based on their cameras and other gear, appeared to be going to the zoo as well.  Thankfully, that’s exactly where they were going, and we found ourselves at the zoo entrance in no time.

We tried this same approach several years later when visiting London.  We were trying to find a particular restaurant and took one of the famous double-decker buses to get there (public transportation isn’t always our friend on these trips!).  When we got off the bus, we checked our map but in the end followed a group of people who I thought I heard talking about the restaurant.  Unfortunately, this approach didn’t work to our advantage this time around.  We ended up in a part of London that I didn’t really care to see and have no plans to visit on future trips.  I’m pretty sure it wasn’t on the tourist list of spots to see while you are visiting from out of town.  Thankfully, we weren’t too far off the path and found our way back to safer ground.

As I learned through our travels, who or what you follow determines where you end up.  I think the Bible is right on (once again) when it refers to us as sheep that sometimes go astray.  It is all too easy to wander off and follow after someone or something that we think will fill our hearts only to leave us unfulfilled and often times in a scary place.  And sometimes we are just looking for a shortcut that will get us where we want to be more quickly (because we constantly struggle with patience!) and yet those short cuts can lead to dead-ends.

It is so comforting to remember that the Lord is our Shepherd.  He truly wants to protect us and guide us along the right paths if we let Him.  When we allow Christ to be the shepherd of our hearts, He promises that we will lack nothing.  That He will refresh our souls and even give our hearts a chance to rest.  And when we walk through the darkest of valleys in this life, He will never leave our side and provide His peace and comfort.  And even through our sometimes winding path (because we don’t always allow Him to lead), we know that our destination will always be great as one day we will have an opportunity to meet our Savior face to face.

Proverbs 3:5-6 are some of my favorite verses in the Bible (probably because I struggle in the area of complete trust).  I love this version from the Message Bible:

Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don’t try to figure out everything on your own.                                                                Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; He’s the one who will keep you on track.

My prayer is that we follow Christ.  That we allow Him to daily guide our paths by spending time with Him in prayer and Bible study.  That we are obedient to Him when He directs our steps.  That we quit chasing after anything that pulls us in a different direction than what He is calling us to.  That we trust Him even through the dark times.  And that we rest in the security of His everlasting love.

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Soul Nutrition

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I’ve been doing some taste testing recently of meal replacement shakes.  It is pretty incredible the way they can pack so much nutritional value in one drink.  It can contain all the vitamins, minerals, and substances your body needs for maintaining good health and providing digestive balance.  The company suggests you drink a shake for breakfast and that it helps your metabolism and can even increase your energy as the day wears on.

And although I haven’t yet figured out if all their selling points are true, what these shakes made me think about was my quiet time.  For me, that time spent with the Lord first thing in the morning is what I need for each new day.  Just like good nutrition, this time is a necessity for me.  While reading His word, I gain His wisdom and His understanding.  He gently reminds me of areas I need to work on, He adjusts my priorities, and He replenishes my soul.  Time spent in prayer allows me to share my concerns, my worries, my doubts.  It gives me a chance to express my gratitude and thanksgiving for His abundant grace and blessings.  It offers the opportunity to ask for forgiveness and mercy.  It helps me recognize the balance that my Savior brings to my life.

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When we carve out a few minutes for that soul nutrition time with our Lord, it is amazing how armed we become to face each day not on our own but with His presence by our side.  His agenda, His path becomes ours.  We begin to look at interruptions as God given opportunities.  The people we come in contact with, we begin to see through His eyes rather than our own. And when the stresses and chaos of the day begin to set in, we can rely on the strength of our Lord to carry us through.

But just as we have to be intentional in choosing good nutrition, we also have to make a commitment to spend time with the Lord each day.  There are so many other things that can fill up our time if we aren’t careful.  I think Satan’s greatest strategy is to keep us so distracted that we no longer hear the Lord’s call in our lives.  Find a time that works best for your quiet time with Christ and stick to the plan.  You might even consider adding it to your calendar as a divine appointment.

My prayer is that we make our quiet time a priority.  That we recognize the importance this special time each day can make in our lives.  That we pick up our Bibles and dig into the truths that can help guide us and allow our lives to be transformed for His glory.  And that our prayers would become the most meaningful conversations we have each day.

That time spent with Christ will be much sweeter than any shake could ever be!

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